The Utley Experience

He Cheated, She Cheated, We Cheated: Women Speak About Infidelity pulls back the covers on cheating. Infidelity raises questions: Why do women stay with a cheater? Why do women cheat? Why do women become “the Other Woman”? How do past experiences with infidelity impact future relationships? He Cheated, She Cheated, We Cheated: Women Speak About Infidelity is an insightful new book that answers these questions and more.

Drawing on over 50 interviews with U.S. women of various ages, racial backgrounds, educational attainments, and sexual orientations, this book is the most comprehensive and diverse women and infidelity study published to date. It examines women’s personal experiences of being cheated on, cheating, being the Other Woman, or some combination of the three. Always engaging and equal parts uplifting and dispiriting, these narratives range from all-too-familiar stories to unconventional perspectives on love, life, and interpersonal communication.

The biggest intervention Dr. Ebony Utley’s new book He Cheated, She Cheated, We Cheated: Women Speak About Infidelity makes in the relationship literature is introducing “Infidelity Plus.” Infidelity Plus describes the social, economic, emotional, psychological, physical, and sexual abuse violations that accompany infidelity. The book also explores infidelity’s relationship to mental health and Post-Infidelity Stress Disorder (PISD). Join Dr. Utley in this timely conversation to further understand how intimate partner violations can be compounded through infidelity. Purchase your copy today!